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How Much is Too Much? Alcohol and the Christian


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Two Christians fellas walk into a bar. Not only is it the best place to watch the game, but it is also a good place to meet those who need Christ most. Following in Christ’s steps (hangin’ with tax-gatherers and drunkards), these two guys pull up a stool at the bar. The bartender says, “What il ya have?” Having been down this road before, the two guys order a beer. They do this for two reasons. First and foremost, they like beer. They call it “Nectar from above” (they are from Oklahoma so cut them some slack). Second, it helps them should a witnessing opportunity arise. Not only does it make them feel a bit more relaxed, but, most importantly, it makes others at the bar feel more relaxed. The first time they went there, they just ordered water. After sitting there with their water, tracts, and Bibles decorating the table, smiling at all the passers-by, they soon realized that they were one step away from a honky-tonk plague. No one would talk to them. They found that having a beer in their hand was like a soothing balm for their personality. Besides, they love beer.

However, there is always the awkward situation when the bottle runs low and the bar-tender asks “Do you want another?” They don’t know how much is too much.

Christians fall all over the board on this issue.

Alcoholic Christians (drunk all the time): Some Christians are alcoholics who can’t get the problem under control. They drink nearly every day. They know its wrong, but they have accepted this as “their sin.” Others have anger issues. Some don’t share their faith. Many are gluttons for worldly possessions. These are alcoholics who drown out their sorrow and depression with a bottle.

Social-drinking Christians (drunk sometimes): Many Christians drink alcohol on “special” occasions. Whether it is a ball game, the staff Christmas party, an after work glass of wine (or two), or just a weekend, they are game. Every once in a while, they drink “too much,” but they would not consider this a sin since they believe the Bible’s primary prohibition is against being progressively controlled by alcohol. After all, Ps 104:15 says that God made wine for the purpose of making the “heart glad.” Yes, the Bible is against being a “drunkard,” but they don’t consider themselves “drunkards” since it is only occasionally that they get drunk and a “drunkard” is one who is always controlled by alcohol. Even in Eph. 5:18 where we are told not to get drunk, the verb is in the present progressive tense which may be understood as the continual act of getting drunk. As well, in 1 Tim. 3:3, the qualification for an elder is one who is not addicted to alcohol. So, to them, getting drunk from time to time is not sinful.

Gospel-driven drinking Christians (tipsy sometimes): Some Christians drink alcohol intentionally in order to open doors for the Gospel. They may or may not like alcohol themselves. Either way, they go to bars and social events where alcohol is involved in order to engage the unbeliever. They might even sponsor events where they provide the alcohol. “After all,” they think to themselves, “Wasn’t Christ a bartender at the wedding of Cana?” (John 2). In many places, they actually start churches in bars. While they are careful more about how much they drink, they don’t mind “feeling the effects.” They are drunk rarely but as they drink, they may have one, two, or three past the border of sobriety becoming ”tipsy.” For them, while getting drunk is a sin, being “tipsy” is not.

Soft teetotalism (never drink themselves): Many Christians are teetotalists, meaning that they abstain from alcohol all-together. A “soft” teetotalist is one who personally does not ever drink, but does not think it is necessarily wrong for others. The reasons for the abstinence here vary. Many are recovering from their own addictions. Others have family members who have been deeply affected by alcohol. Some just don’t like the taste of alcohol or the feeling that accompanies drinking.

Hard teetotalism (no Christian should ever drink): There are quite a few Christians who not only abstain from alcohol themselves, but think that all Christians should abstain. “Wine is a mocker and strong drink a brawler and whoever is intoxicated by it is not wise” (Prov. 20:1). Wisdom humbly stays away from alcohol. These believe that the effects of alcohol on individuals and societies are tremendously harmful to the Gospel. Christians should set the example by ensuring that they are always sober minded. Social drinking, even if just one drink, can cause others to stumble. Its best just to stay away all-together. For these, the type of alcohol offered today is much stronger than what was available in Biblical times, so any comparison is misleading.

Where do you fall?

If you are a drinking Christian, how much is too much? When has the line been crossed?

(I have also put a poll up about this).

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106 Comments

  1. Jesse G says:

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    You’ll notice that there has been no response given to Deuteronomy 14:24-26.

    Vladimir, I would love to hear one. . .

  2. JT says:

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    I remember driving a non-Christian home from school, and he was a drug user… so he ask me if using drugs was wrong like marijuana. Being a new Christian, i didn’t know how to answer him so i told him i would get back to him. So i browse the internet, suprisingly there was a lot of sites that said God made weed and therefore it is good in some kind of context like that. So i ask my pastor and this was how he answer me. God made sex, and sex is good. But we live in a sinful world and sex can be used in a bad way. I think that applies to drinking too as far as answering the question how much is too much.

  3. EricW says:

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    This video should answer the question of whether or not Christians should drink: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OiiYyJqV43Y

    Of course, watching this may drive you to drink!

    (FYI, he discusses their doctrines beginning about 6:40 through 9:48.)

  4. Jim Chandler says:

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    I fall into the soft teetotalism myself. I used to drink occasionally, now with children I don’t want them to think it is okay.

  5. Moara says:

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    I think I’m the inverse of a “Gospel-driven drinking Christian,” in that I only drink if I know that noone present has a problem with alcohol.

    I base this on the general idea presented in the bible that being drunk (and turning to alcohol rather than God for your happiness) is a sin. And also on Romans 14, with the idea that, although I may be free to drink, if doing so causes pain to a brother, or makes it harder for them not to sin, then I shouldn’t do it.

    That’s why I truly appreciate Vladimir’s position. I think it’s important for us to hear his situation, and his experience of the darker side of alcohol and how it relates to the bible. I think as Christians, it’s important for us to not just form our own opinions, but to learn from one another.

    I have so many friends who are the children of alcoholics, and have had so much pain inflicted on them because of alcohol, or who are caught up in the party atmosphere of university, and if they’re not on their way to becoming alcoholics, are at least depending on alcohol to evade dealing with their own lives (and in some cases, this means avoiding dealing with the gospel), that I can’t in good consience drink around them.

    I’ve had several situations (office parties and the like) where there hasn’t actually been anything non-alcoholic to drink, until I asked for it, and they scrounged something up. I’m secure enough in what I beleive that I don’t mind doing that, but I think it would be much harded to do for a recovering alcoholic, and so I think that’s what God wants me to do in that kind of situation.

    However, when I’m at a dinner party with a group of friends, and I know that none of them have issues with alcohol, I will try a glass of wine, or an appertif.

    Anyway, I figure this discussion is well over, but I just thought I’d add my 2 cents.

  6. Eric says:

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    I guess I’d be considered a Social-Drinking Christian (drunk sometimes), honestly that is also because I’m still young, and I’m just getting the thrill of getting drunk here and there. But I’ve improved so much over the last year with how much I drink. IF I drink now, its very seldom, and its with someone I’m close with, and no real big ‘partying’ I don’t look at it as a sin considering I’ve got it under control, and its only on certain occasions. Now before I became a Christian, I looked at it as a major sin in my life because I did it very frequently, I just wanted to get drunk, now I do it just occasionally to relax with some old friends or family. and I’m never ‘hammered’.

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