Jim, I think that it is quite wonderful that you have acknowledged your sin before God and repented. When a person comes to God with a truly humble and repentant heart God will not reject such a person. It is “the kindness of God which leads us to repentance” in the first place. It is actually a great evidence of God’s love for you that he sent his Spirit to convict you of your sin and bring you to a place of repentance. What would your life be like now if He had not?

It sounds as if you are still experiencing the consequences of your sin in some ways. That’s hard, but many can echo your story of the long-term price they have paid for wrong done…the losses they grieve over which cause continual pain.

I know what it is like to suffer for years, under the hand of another, and see no rescue from God. But, now, many years later I have finally experienced God’s transforming work. I have suffered unjustly for years, but now I can see how God used it to refine me for His purposes. I’ve also seen an amazing change in the one who persecuted me for 21 years! Did I give up on prayer during those 21 years? I would say that I did to some extent. I needed someone to pray for me….to pray with fresh faith. I do believe that although what I suffered was injust, and it was the continued sin of anther toward me, that God allowed it, and used it in my life. Thus it became a tool of God for my own sanctification. Just think of how much Paul suffered as he pursued God’s call in his life….and remember that He begged God repeatedly to remove the “thorn in his flesh”…”a messenger of Satan to trouble me” 2 Cor. 12:7-10
God did not remove it, in answer to Paul’s prayer. But told Paul, “My grace is enough for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Paul learned in time to accept this from the hand of God, and even to be thankful for it, and how God used it in His life.

So, Jim, it is possible that you are not praying in line with God’s current will for you (?) I would so wish to encourage you to remain in God’s word. Make it a daily habit. I think that you will gain perspective, in time, which will help and encourage you. God will speak to you from His Word. He DOES love you. The proof is in His word, and in the fact that He sent his Son to suffer in your stead and to pay the price for the sin you have committed.
God laid it on my heart to respond to what you wrote. Is that not also evidence of his love for you?! (and I really don’t have time for this!….but in God’s economy, I do).

Prayers for you! Susan

“If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me…”. That Might explain why the prayers of a righteous man are more effective.

Even if there are some who have more status with God than others, still, who are those people?

Are they necessarily the self-styled, self-appointed “elect”?

Who are the truly righteous? Those who identify themselves as such?

Or will only God know and “judge,” at the end?

Greg, the example of David praying for his son is actually very appropriate for this conversation. God actually DID answer David’s prayer at this time – not in saving his newborn son’s life, but in a restored communion with him and reduced punishment for David’s horrible, murderous actions. When you look at the circumstances of this story, you realize how important it is for us to come clean with God, no matter how far we’ve wandered, and plead for his help and restoration.
Genuine humility matters a great deal when we come to God in prayer. We should never forget that “God gives grace to the humble, but resists the proud.”. If we are demonstrating pride in a variety of areas of our lives, we are certain to meet God’s resistance, which is actually for our good – because it often brings us to a place of surrender.

Personally I feel I have no clout with God. I fell into sin six years ago and though I confessed, repented, and changed I feel that God has chosen simply to ignore me and my prayers ever since. I ain’t remember the last time God answered any prayers of mine at all which is why I have basically become prayerless in the recent days.

The church has given up on me. God has given up on me. I see God answering prayer and blessing the lives of people who continue in sin and who preach a pop-evangelical message. Yet God has decided that I am a worthless piece of trash and he wants nothing to do with me. Why does God love other people so much more than he loves me?

It seems to me that every conversation these days should begin with an agreement on the meaning of terms used. Right from the get go I was uncomfortable with the very phrase ‘clout with God’. It implies that God is like a CEO of a multinational company, or the President or supreme ruler of some nation who of necessity will listen to and be influenced by a select group of people. Whereas the Scripture says that ‘in Him we live and move and have our being’, and also ‘that without faith it is impossible to please God’ But I have found that when I am humble or have been humbled before God my very requests change. This is in keeping also with the teaching of Scripture, is it not?

Honestly, I tend to side with Susan on the subject. I too have had a few similar experiences.

This is all very tricky to deal with. I’ve heard stories where very godly people prayed specific prayers and were answered, and others who never got the answer they wanted.

The same can be said for those who appear to have been ungodly people.

I think it swings both ways, and the key seems to be lining up one’s prayers with God’s will for the moment.

You have great men of God who have some serious clout, like Moses and Abraham, getting their prayers answered. But then you have perhaps even greater men of God who don’t get their prayers answered. David praying for the life of his son, and Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane.

Maybe we are reading the verse in James wrong?

Either way, we don’t know why some prayers get answered and others don’t. I doubt there is a reasonable formula of any kind one can use to gain favor with God in a manner that insures his prayers are answered in as much as they aren’t directly a part of God’s will for that moment.

Maybe its all about lining up with God’s will? Maybe a more righteous person is better in tune with God’s will, and so can direct his prayers in such a way as to “tap into” providence. Maybe as one matures in the faith his will is given up and given over to God so that they become one in purpose. The desires of our heart being placed there by God, etc. Think the Borg from Star Trek, except the assimilation is voluntary on our part!

Maybe the answered prayers we see come from this union of wills. I think its close to this in some way, because I doubt our prayers could ever make God do something he willfully opposed.

Just kinda thinking out loud here.

Perhaps the righteous are more attuned to God’s will, rather than their own, so they ask more appropriate requests?

Or maybe God honors their devotion more?

That’s something I’m not sure I’ve given much thought to but find intriguing.

That aside, I’m sorry for the trying situation. I’m not very righteous, but I’ll throw my prayer in for you. Strength in numbers, right? Although I think of God more as a quality over quantity…

Funny you should ask, because I’ve been considering this lately. “The prayers of a righteous man accomplish much….”
I’ve been so fortunate to have Dan Wallace praying for me on several counts over the past year and a half, and I will say that God has answered his prayers in some incredible ways. I have often thought of James 5:16 as I’ve reflected on this. The matters which he has spoken with God about are things which involve relational issues—relationships between God and others, and person to person relationships. In other words, I have seen some significant spiritual changes take place, with resulting positive changes in human relationships. The things Dan has prayed about, for me, have not been matters of physical healing…..but I sure would be pleased if God would answer my prayers for him, that he would experience relief from his current physical suffering.

I will say about Dan, that he is a man who honors and values God’s word perhaps more than anyone I’ve ever known. He has a humble heart, and is very concerned with living a godly life.

I’m not saying that everyone should send their requests to Dan, but I do think that it makes sense to share your burdens with a godly and righteous person who is willing to pray with you.

I haven’t asked Dan to pray that my father won’t develop Alzheimer’s (as this seems to be what is beginning to manifest), but I might like for him to pray that God will give us the grace and wisdom to deal with whatever might arise in a way which honors Him, and best helps all involved…..and reflects Jesus to others. Not that there’s anything wrong with praying for healing, but sometimes God will not remove a physical ailment. My daughter has CP. We all prayed that God would heal her of it for quite awhile when she was young. He did not.

So, I’m speaking from personal observation. The prayers of one godly man have accomplished MUCH in my life, and in the life of my family.